First Communion

When is the best time to offer first communion?

In the early church, the practice was weekly communion, and communion was offered to young children. Martin Luther, who dedicated himself to breaking down barriers to God's sacraments and grace, believed we should have communion each time we worship. However, beginning in the 1800's, many European theologians recommended that we receive communion on rare occasions, and that children should be offered communion at the conclusion of confirmation. These practices continued for many years (including my own childhood). I was made to feel that I had to "earn" communion by going through confirmation.

About thirty years ago, during a time of liturgical renewal, there was a revitalization of practices from the early church - those who knew and followed Jesus. We realized that the practices of the early church made more sense than the practices of certain 18th century European leaders. I speak from the heart; I have always been a pastor with great interest in following the practices of the early church. My daughter began asking for communion in the 2nd grade, and my wife and I felt she was ready. It was meaningful for our family to commune together as a family of God. Actually the Catholic church has been communing 2nd graders for years. I suspect that over time the 2nd grade will become accepted practice by many people and churches.

Some churches, including Redeemer, have compromised by splitting the difference and offering communion to 4th and 5th graders. I feel the best approach is to provide you with these details and encourage you to make an informed decision. Some parents received their first communion later in their own childhood and would prefer that their children respect a long standing family tradition. We understand it is hard to give up certain traditions. For this reason we encourage parents to decide "when" their children should receive communion. Your decisions will be respected. I'm sure your decision will be the right one for your family. If you feel your child is ready, please consider attending the next first communion workshop.

In Christ,
Pastor Bob